What was your biggest takeaway as a patient at Valley Hope that has informed your recovery journey?
I am not in control or responsible for the world around me. Only God or your higher power has control.
What staff member most influenced your treatment stay?
My counselor, Aimee P.
What is life like today in recovery?
I’m free from the obsession with alcohol and drugs. I regularly attend the Tuesday night alumni meeting, which is also my home group. I call my sponsor daily and am working on the 12 steps of Alcoholics Anonymous. I have grown strong friendships and a fellowship with people I attended residential and outpatient with and met outside in meetings. Life is truly amazing, and I’m grateful for the opportunity to reflect on myself and change the course of my life at Valley Hope of Chandler and Valley Hope of Tempe.
What piece of advice would you share with others seeking recovery?
Admitting yourself to residential/in-patient treatment isn’t enough to keep you sober and change the course of your life. You need to read and reflect on the literature of Alcoholics Anonymous, not only by yourself but with others. Other’s perspective is how you truly learn the lessons of AA. The most impactful thing I did while still attending Valley Hope was to get a sponsor. I have the same sponsor today and he challenges me regularly. He has played the most significant role in changing my life.
People would say things like “be in the moment” and “one day at a time” and that never made any sense to me. I can honestly say that I’ve learned how to do those things today.
In the first six months of sobriety I have restored my relationships with my family and friends, fallen in love with my sober partner, thrived in my career and gotten plugged back in with communities I enjoyed before my addiction.
My passion for reading has turned into a wonderful opportunity of reading for a network that helps others. I am now two years into my volunteer work and absolutely love it!
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