What was your biggest takeaway as a patient at Valley Hope that has informed your recovery journey?
That I didn’t need to drink...for any reason. That my life can be a happy one without drinking. That family comes first- my wife, 6 kids, and 14 grandkids. That God has let me be clean for my grandkids. That I’m now a fourth Knight of Columbus. Retired, but can still sub schools for band directors. And the best thing is that I can go to Valley Hope and maybe say just one thing that might help someone else.
What staff member most influenced your treatment stay?
John. All the staff really cared. They all did a good job with me.
What is life like today in recovery?
Great….my kids and grandkids all love me. Now I get to hold and play with my baby great grandkids. My kids wouldn’t let my grands near me when I was drinking because I would get mean. Sobriety solved that problem. I enjoy doing a book study every week at the treatment center with a friend and we share our story once a month at Valley Hope of O’Neill. I love seeing people being or getting clean and happy again. And, I can give back what was gladly given to me. I also sponsor, even to two great nephews who are staying sober.
What piece of advice would you share with others seeking recovery?
Listen and even take notes when you are in treatment. Talk with the staff and listen to what they say to you. I had great conversations with my counselors. Those talks and ideas have stuck with me for a long time. Make a friend or few and keep in contact with them after treatment. That helps me too.
People would say things like “be in the moment” and “one day at a time” and that never made any sense to me. I can honestly say that I’ve learned how to do those things today.
In the first six months of sobriety I have restored my relationships with my family and friends, fallen in love with my sober partner, thrived in my career and gotten plugged back in with communities I enjoyed before my addiction.
My passion for reading has turned into a wonderful opportunity of reading for a network that helps others. I am now two years into my volunteer work and absolutely love it!
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